tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-53922907036673974892024-03-12T18:03:53.590-07:00Law firm rainmaker consultingCustomized client development training that turns good attorneys into great business developers. Customized branding, social media, prospecting, and long-term client development that utilizes best practices from the top legal business developers in the country.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.comBlogger60125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-53742735515229240332021-04-13T06:10:00.000-07:002021-04-13T06:10:31.533-07:00Now What?A few weeks ago I took my family the long way along the Gulf Coast road toward Panama City and 30A for Spring Break. Leaving what had been ritual of interstate travel to peek-a-boo through the pine trees on the left to the Gulf of Mexico and slow down through oyster towns. Apalachicola then Port St. Joe we began to realize that the more that we drifted toward the vacationing masses that either fatigue had set in or some version of “enough already”. The family discussions around what we were not able to do this time last year. First trips from home to the store where you would return to a scene from Silkwood scrubbing all of the cooties off.<br /><br />Remember the looks in people’s eyes that you would encounter peering over those homemade masks? Some people you recognize, some you don’t, some you hope don’t recognize you. Post handshake, pre knuckles, don’t even think about a hug phase.<br /><br />Over the past year, I have had a few thousand discussions with attorneys. (as if Covid isn’t bad enough) you may say. Not that the legal community is unique to the types of discussions. After the sourdough, podcast, and binge-watching, honey-do, catch-ups, and maybe during, people have had a lot of time to determine what they are willing to tolerate and not tolerate. We have witnessed some of those manifested publicly and tribally over the past year, but more internally. <br /><br />Is now the time to retire, change or stay the course, hard left, walk away, double down, slight pivot, retrench, go all in? What does next look like? The overwhelming sense of ideas conjured, bubbled up, and waiting to burst, now retreating to reality or that first real step to next.<br /><br />Living in Florida, we have not been immune, but also have very little point of reference to the whims of some other parts of the country. For the most part, mask, distance, but stuff is open and has been. Listening to people in virtual lockdown for a year I fear what the world will look like as they emerge. Strong people with a great deal of pain and anxiety that will need to find a way out of the body. Can’t even think about a trip to Europe when a trip to their favorite restaurant fills them with dark dread. Some will need to mourn, some already have, and the good book says that there is a time and place for all of it.<br /><br />Walking around Seaside where The Truman Show was filmed, you get the feeling like we are in that last part of the movie. A reality, probably a new one is out there, but we have been stuck in this one for what seems like forever. The in-between. We all will have our turn to walk through that door. Look at what is in front, and what is being left behind. Some will celebrate that, some won’t. <br /><br />When it fades to black what are you going to do when asked, “Now what?” <br /><br />Andrew Wilcox, President, Wilcox and Hackett, LLC, Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com, 850-274-7849<p style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.75); counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; cursor: text; font-family: "Source Serif Pro", serif; font-size: 2rem; line-height: 3.2rem; margin: 3.2rem 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; white-space: pre-wrap;" /></p>Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-55799463831903052512021-01-11T07:08:00.000-08:002021-01-11T07:08:08.398-08:00Walkabout<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhy09KOmzH-vb18P37iEb549iPvNkI4PXjbT9p4j-VftNTJ7x6EfA_1pfZ9PQ_APJDOie3EKY9n0edq9LTfsGDtvsBtiuq27dkAjm29k3MFlYCVeKhI5jNFAy1m-uP7mJ9EBdlokI-lhRmZ/s1440/20201029_180044.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="672" data-original-width="1440" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhy09KOmzH-vb18P37iEb549iPvNkI4PXjbT9p4j-VftNTJ7x6EfA_1pfZ9PQ_APJDOie3EKY9n0edq9LTfsGDtvsBtiuq27dkAjm29k3MFlYCVeKhI5jNFAy1m-uP7mJ9EBdlokI-lhRmZ/s320/20201029_180044.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div>When my best friend sent an invite a couple of months ago to their 25th anniversary just outside of Fort Worth, it seemed obvious the first thing to do was to book a flight from Tallahassee to Salt Lake City and drive back weaving my way through parts of this country that show up in those gray areas on cell coverage maps. With my wife’s blessing because the itinerary involved a good deal of hikes and sites that she and my daughters do not find that passes for a good time, out of the bubble I flew with a mask, hand sanitizer, and a stop to load up on snacks and PB&J.<br /><br />Not sure of what I would find, whom I would talk to, or what the open road would hold, it was liberating. Delays on the front end sending me through open prairie en route to Ely, NV past the “loneliest road in the country” sans radio signal save for NPR, arrived at dark, left at dark to get to the trailhead of Wheeler Peak at Great Basin National Park. Planning on solo hiking, quickly made friends with a fellow on a walkabout named Steve. Pushing each other to over thirteen thousand feet talking about his two-month journey, faith, family, what he would do for work when he got back to San Diego. The type of talk that it usually takes guys years to get into, we dove right in. He needed an ear, I needed someone to kick me up that last thousand feet on a few hours of sleep. Both of us needed to know that we weren’t on this journey alone.<br /><br />Aggressive travel planning had me on the 7 am shuttle at Zion National Park the next morning and huffing my way up to the top of Angel’s Landing with an afternoon of walking waist-deep in water through The Narrows. Angel’s Landing's chain section had been closed up until a couple of weeks earlier as it is one way up and down holding on to them. The early crowd held the mountain as the sun revealed shades of color pallets down the valley. Happy to be there, happy to be anywhere other than the four walls from which they came. A veritable party like it was 2019 and the world hadn’t gone crazy that made everyone sort of linger there. Making way down as the log jam along the chains making way up. <br /><br />Peakbaggers, thru-hikers, day-trippers, the earthy set, folks visiting from outside a metroplex, I wore them out zippity-do-da-ing my way down that trail greeting everyone with some variation of good morning. Most returning the greeting in kind, craving some sort of connection looking forward to the day, once taken for granted, where we could get on a packed elevator and talk about the weather or third trip our way through an all-you-can-eat buffet. <br /><br />Everyone needs something to get through this. Hiking is getting somewhere. Fatigue and exhaustion, support from a stranger in a turn back moment. Mentally one foot in front of another until you get to where you want to go. Eye contact, check-ins, shared fuel along the way. We have too much time and not enough, but all that there is.<br /><br />How much further is it? Just around the corner. Over that hill. You are close. Not that much. You are doing good at your pace. Hang in there. It’s worth it. <br /><br />We all need that connection to someone for those answers. We are all fatigued and exhausted, but on the trail, it is really tough to stay down when you find your people on a journey.<br /><br />When a snowstorm pushed me to Plan B en route to West Texas, traded alpine peaks for places like Truth or Consequences, New Mexico, and Alpine, Texas. A few months ago Big Bend National Park had closed a day before we were to go as a family. If you have never been to this part of the world, I am convinced, like with Great Basin that some of the best national parks, and I have been to 45 of them, are the ones that take some getting to. <br /><br />On your way, support these small towns. If you have ever driven through a town where you believe that at some point something was happening there, that is what a great deal of these towns are becoming with Covid shutdowns. Who is going to open a hardware store downtown anywhere anymore? Lunch spot, when all of the chains are around. Stuff stores when dollar stores are on the city limits. A lot is spoken about big city and big business disruption and it is tragic, but people live and chose to live in towns for generations handing some of these businesses down that they will watch close and never come back.<br /><br />With a last day of hiking at Big Bend National Park, witnessing a West Texas sunrise en route the two hours from the closest town, down a gravel road to the Santa Elena Canyon trail. Two people had just come off the trail leaving me alone on it for the better part of an hour. A mile and a half up the Rio Grande with thousand-foot cliffs on either side. Listening to the breeze blow through the canyon over the river mixed with the desert scrub. The Paleo-Indians walked these paths, looked at the tops of those cliffs, heard the same river going back to 15,000 BC. All alone, feet in the water, the end of a journey near, overwhelmed with a sense of gratitude. To God, family, friends, health. To life.<br /><br />That last hike trying to hold on to the journey up Lost Mine Trail 4.2 miles it had been a long week. Legs were tired, views had been seen that tend to stick in your wayback machine a while. Encouraged to do this last hike by a couple of guys in from Houston with their families, looking at what I thought was the destination I happened upon a few folks on their way down.<br /><br />“How much further is it?” Just around the corner. Over that hill. You are close. Not that much. You are doing good at your pace. Hang in there. It’s worth it. <br /><br />We’ll get there.<br /><br />Andrew Wilcox, Owner of Wilcox and Hackett, LLC and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Compass-Andrew-Wilcox-ebook/dp/B08L5LZPZH">Author of Compass, now available on Amazon</a>, 850-274-7849, Andrew@Wilcox-legal.comWilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-6007302546834787782020-02-25T13:04:00.001-08:002020-02-25T13:04:41.784-08:00Second ActsContrary to what F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote, second acts in American life are more the norm than the exception.<br /><br /><div>
Of course, he was 44 when he died. Second acts often are projected onto people. Can you imagine Elvis in Branson, or Marilyn Monroe as a sage grandmother in a rom-com? We lock them in their time even though each lived to 42 and 36 respectfully. <br /><br />The reality hits you when you go to a 80’s flashback band concert and see more gray hair and finger snapping. It’s not pretty for the most part. Inevitably, there is always one that dances the full Elaine and tries to get the others to join. We are all just a little sore and unhip for that nonsense.<br /><br />Owning a search and consulting firm, I am in the second act business. The “rising action” as referred to in the theater. Listening to attorneys talk about what worked in act one, what they never want to do again, people that they never want to work with again, and what options resolve to await them in the second act.<br /><br />A couple of years ago, I took part in the Jim Moran Institute for Global Entrepreneurship. Prior to the program, I knew him as an owner of a Pontiac dealership growing up in South Florida, that then owned JM Enterprises, and had a yacht named the Gallant Lady moored at Bahia Mar.<br /><br />After WWII, Jim Moran opened a gas station in Chicago with a $360 loan, began selling Hudson’s and became financially successful eventually selling Fords and Pontiacs before being diagnosed with terminal cancer in his 40’s. Deciding to relocate to Florida, beating cancer, he got a call from a friend to learn if he may have an interest in an upstart car company called Toyota. <br /><br />Test-driving one down the interstate, he threw it into reverse trying to break it every way he could, deemed that it was well built and reasonably priced. He would go on to launch Southeast Toyota where 20% of all of the Toyotas in the US would be sold through. A 15 billion dollar company as a second act.<br /><br />He was always a car man. Tough to wake up in your 40’s, 50’s, or 60’s as a lawyer and decide to become as qualified in anything else. Besides, those bill rates aren't just based on the hour, but rather the years of experience that lead to that hour. Perhaps the way that you are doing it needs examination. The how, why, and for whom. A call from a friend that points you reluctantly in a different direction.<br /><br />How many people do you know that have never gotten out of act one for fear of what comes next?<br /><br />What must be dealt with and treated in the first act to move on to your second act?<br /><br />What do you need to try and break before you are sold on a new direction?<br /><br />Are you ready to determine and plan your second act? Then act, don’t project.<br /><br />If you want to have a confidential discussion about your goals and what a second act would look like to you please contact me at: Andrew Wilcox, <a href="http://Andrew@wilcox-legal.com/">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>, 850-274-7849</div>
Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-54729611134308175292019-11-19T08:39:00.000-08:002019-11-19T08:39:48.740-08:00Time and SpaceIt has been said that Margaritaville is anywhere that you want it to be. <br /><br />So after reading articles about law firms acting like two schools yelling across a Friday night football field about who has more spirit, and counting up the many nickels that I would have for every firm that I know that has maintained the same general headcount for a decade deciding to add office space for 30-50 new offices in a city. It seems that many firms want it to be the 80’s and 90’s again. (Personal privilege, I’m all for it. Lived in Lauderdale. Loved the music. College was fun.)<br /><br />However, just like you see the many things that cell phones have replaced. The idea of space is dated. Other than photo backdrops, why exactly do law firms have decades-old Westlaw books on walls of shelves? Go watch a Mad Men episode and realize how many of those jobs are obsolete. Watch The Office and realize that all of the admin would be centralized in Tallahassee, Jim and Pam would be on flex-time working from home. Dwight would be working from the farm on his beet growing side hustle while filling his pipeline. Michael would manage a remote sales team of certainly more than 2-4 people. The reception would be automated and supply-chain efficient distribution centers would ship next day paper supplies to the customers who still use paper for the entire region. Still, nobody would know what Creed does, but every company has one of those employees.<br /><br />Over the past several years, I have constantly heard the refrain from attorneys that a lot of their offices are empty on any given day. People are working from home more and at different hours. <br /><br />Planning a retreat earlier this year I found a flight with a 3 am connection and it made me question why there is such a thing as rush hour anymore. Why not fly or drive at 2-4 am? This 9-5 world is so analog to people who want to work until time to pick up their kids, have dinner with family or enjoy a hobby, reengage with clients a world away from 10 pm until 2 am when their clients are working on their second cup of coffee.<br /><br />A colleague of mine works with clients in London first thing in the morning, east coast clients through the day and west coast clients in the afternoon from a beach condo in Destin.<br /><br />The idea that the only way to engage this world is to put on an expensive outfit, sit in traffic, go to a building, kibitz in the snack room, before taking in the beautiful panoramic views from the high floor conference room, when all of the speeds, video calling, legal resources can be accessed anywhere at anytime is a mind shift change that is happening at a rapid clip. <br /><br />In my little town of Tallahassee, I can name a dozen attorneys that either work from home for a large international firm in another city, or have clients that are in the UK, Asia, Latin America, or anywhere in the US that they rarely see and even more rarely need to see in their office. Staying closer to home, better serving people further away. More nimble with rates, time, and space.<br /><br />Some firms are embracing this as a way to recruit attorneys whether it is utilizing technology, processes, and procedures to ensure that attorneys can leverage their practices and not be siloed in their home offices. Other firms are embracing hybrid models that are more hotel options where less office space is secured, but available for attorneys that need it.<br /><br />If you aren’t using all of that overhead that you are working to maintain, why are you paying for it? To be part of a national or international firm? It is at least a visual way to take stock of a firm’s culture and fiscal mindset when evaluating a move. Firms that have solid processes usually have them throughout the organization. I have never seen a firm that handles the hiring process with a ton of bureaucracy only to become efficient when someone is hired. Fiscal irresponsibility usually rears its head all throughout a firm. Ask to take a tour and let what you see inform you. Eventually, you will be on the hook for paying for someone else’s dream.<br /><br />A dream that may be a dated way of confusing someone’s presence in a building with their productivity and legal prowess.<br /><br />So what constitutes a national or international law firm or practice? I guess it’s wherever you want it to be?<br /><br />Andrew Wilcox, President, Wilcox & Hackett, LLC, Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com, 850-274-7849Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-6227512959780303412019-11-19T08:06:00.000-08:002019-11-19T08:06:38.417-08:00The Journey<br />
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A couple of years ago I was invited to mostly proctor a plenary session at a 2-day conference. Paying freight by weaving a few recruiting and client development best practices to a room that was amped up just short of a Tony Robbins firewalk, then brought down with soft music, reamped with mantras chanted, chakras aligned, laughter, crying, an entire gamut of emotions. Perfectly articulate folks who found their inner middle schooler taking profanity for a test drive. Others who escaped offices for a few days finding an inner peace that would hopefully last them past the following Wednesday. <br /><br />Gone were the elevator pitches. Apparently, people take the stairs, are afraid of triggering in a boxed space, or interrupting people scrolling their Facebook pages. Several people took turns on the last day delivering their “tagline” or “money” line describing what they do in the form of a verb. Not an attorney, “I help clients navigate the real estate buying process.” “I help companies manage their legal risk.”<br /><br />At a carb social between sessions, a gentleman introduced himself, gave his tagline and asked what I do, to which I blurted out, “I go on journeys with people.”<br /><br />By this point, I was around state 32 of a journey with my family to all 50 state capitols, presidential libraries, and national parks that's origin began with noun destinations in mind. Around state 15 somewhere lost in Thelma and Louise country missing the turn in Hanksville, Utah as the Sun was setting, two young daughters and my wife in a car that was getting close to empty thanking the paper map as GPS was lost, or the church in Salida, Colorado opened on Wednesday evening, when apparently every gas station, store, and restaurant owner within 200 miles shuts it down early for Hee-Haw or Lawrence Welk reruns, we found that ears that hear the who, what, why, when, and where will garner instant recall as a book of capitols stamped from each will end up in a bin somewhere.<br /><br />This summer we finished in Montana, every presidential library, and 48 national parks realizing that the two in the backseat are approaching the age where the Griswold family vacations will soon give way to their own personal journeys and the logistical capabilities of embarking on them.<br /><br />There is a lot of time to think on some of the roads out West where after hours in a direction, mountains do not seem to get closer. Thinking of the people in the van, friends, family, but also the journeys that I have been lucky enough to travel with attorneys over the years.<br /><br />By now, I have known some attorneys from a LinkedIn connection or advice-seeking emails when they graduated from law school, through the associate ranks, partnership, starting their own firms or managing firms. Along the way, marrying, kids, parents that have fallen ill and needing to be close to. Vacations, hobbies, triumphs, tragedies. Overcoming self-inflicted obstacles. Taking calls, texts, emails at all hours from some that are paid a $1000/ hour to always have all of the answers, but can’t find an escape from the pain that they feel. Counseling to make amends when they can, listening to their stories and what they want of the next chapter. Helping to navigate an opportunity that helps pay for their kid's college, enables time in the morning or evening to share a meal with family, surrounds them with people that challenge and embrace them.<br /><br />Please contact me at: <a href="http://mailto:Andrew@wilcox-legal.com/">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>, or 850-274-7849 if you want to discuss what is next in your journey.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-6424912665770609752018-12-05T11:39:00.002-08:002018-12-05T11:39:43.589-08:00The BargainJust before Thanksgiving, I caught up with a colleague and friend from New York where the topic turned to pretty heady discussion about “the bargain” that attorneys make. Not just attorneys, really all high-stress professions, but since we work exclusively with law firm partners and firm management our anecdotes focused on such.<br /> <br />She and I met several years ago through a mutual friend as he was looking to relocate to Florida to give his family a fresh start after burning through holidays, weekends, vacation time, even being picked up at Easter service and returned to the office to work on a big deal. Graduating near the top of the class from a top law school, he got on the track with the hopes of Partnership, financial success, and all of the bona fides of entering a room as a high profile partner at a major AM Law firm in the biggest legal market in the world.<br /> <br />When the self-medicating began, compromises were made, chances given, help offered. The next firm was a bit less tolerant deciding that the first 90 days offered the protections of parting ways. Then the next. This time his wife had had enough.<br /> <br />He would call me much earlier than that, often after 8 or 9 PM, talking about raising his kids in Florida. Giving them a different lifestyle, but couldn’t take certain reductions in pay or title because his book was growing, but not particularly portable. It was the bargain that he made to get what he wanted, until it wasn’t. Our mutual friend found him after an overdose in a one bedroom apartment in New Jersey.<br /> <br />Last year, one of the kindest attorneys that I knew, who by all accounts had all of the worldly success anyone could ask for was found in Miami after committing suicide.<br /> <br />Every few weeks, an article is written in one of the legal journals about addiction, suicide, or an attorney losing their minds and throwing an entire life’s work away. <br /> <br />Earlier this year, I had to testify in a murder trial of an Atlanta attorney that was found guilty of killing his wife. During the preceding days, he and I had been exchanging texts and emails. Emails that he wanted sent to her email because he did not have a personal email, and he wanted to show her that he was trying to improve his financial situation.<br /> <br />After one discussion that revolved more around politics, football, and setting up a meeting about a group merger, he walked into his wife’s office thirteen minutes later and got into a verbal altercation. If there was anything weighing on him, as an attorney who was paid a lot per hour to have the answers at his fingertips, he sure didn’t let on.<br /> <br />Needless to say, testifying now at a murder and a divorce, is a bit more that I bargained for.<br /> <br />More though is that something is happening out there. The center isn’t holding anymore.<br /> <br />Studies show that around 70% of attorneys are dealing with an addiction. Get your mind around the fact that if you have an office of 10 attorneys, roughly 7 are quietly fighting a battle that only a few, if any, know about.<br /> <br />Maybe it is the hyper-focus of having to always have the answers when your name is called in the ever smaller tribes that amass each persons echo chamber.<br /> <br />As a recruiter, conversations crossroad between personal and professional every day. The opportunities sought or not sought based on the status of firm, title, leverage of practice, success measured in dollars. Answers to how much is enough, with the casual just a little more.<br /> <br />The holding off on opportunity because of a new child, marriage, ailing parent, that is one part exciting, but for some the first change of a plan that they have harbored since they were 1L’s bringing a little resentment. Then a little something to forget about it. Then a decade of compromises made for “the greater good”, lubricated in many cases with different hidden vices, until they aren’t.<br /> <br />In the past two weeks, I have placed a 73-year-old litigator from an AM Law 20 firm that still plays rugby, married to the love of his life, and finds bliss in the law enough to want to practice another 10 years.<br /> <br />Another in her early 40’s that wants to work as hard as humanly possible until the age of 50 because she has no intention of ever being an attorney after 50 and candidly hates being a lawyer. The next 10 years pay off debt, get kids through college, sock away retirement, and set up an already busy travel itinerary. That is her bargain.<br /> <br />This tends to be the time of year where attorneys wait for the payoff for the bargain that they have made. <br /> <br />Please feel free to call or email me if you believe that you need better alignment between your personal and professional goals. My approach is to listen and consult, not fit square pegs into round holes and spray and pray your resume around town.<br /> <br />If you could make a different bargain, whether it’s a conversation that has been held off, forgiveness withheld to someone or even to yourself, seeking a change that surrounds you with people who enhance you personally and professionally, changes made that reduce the impact of financial liability, one more meal a week with someone that you haven’t shared a meal with in a while, calling an old friend, attending a religious service, saying yes to something that you have said no to for a while, saying no to something that you have said yes to too much.<br /> <br />I’d call that a bargain. Maybe the best you ever had.<br /> <br />Andrew Wilcox, President, Wilcox and Hackett, LLC, <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>, 850-274-7849Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-56821016279245412292018-12-05T11:37:00.001-08:002018-12-05T11:37:41.841-08:00Yes...AndThrough a variety of circumstances, one of the circles that was run in during college was with a band of gypsies that found what they hoped to be their lives calling in comedy. <br /><br />Every couple of weeks there would be an improv night at some old theater in Coconut Grove, Boca Raton, or Hollywood, where people would come for the cheap wine and interactive dance without a net that is the audience-performer experience. After which, I would sit and listen to the budding comedians debrief the performances.<br /><br />A central tenet of improv is what is known as Yes...And. It takes whatever is thrown out at face value and builds from it.<br /><br />The more outlandish and creative the better, as the debriefs would be critical of jokes that were obvious, gratuitously vulgar, or didn’t keep the act going.<br /><br />Like in business conversations, the better the listening, the better the result. Have you ever had a conversation with someone that is waiting to talk, rather than actively listening? If you would only be quiet, they are about to drop some serious knowledge on you about just how knowledgeable that they are...<br /><br />Two things make or break Yes...And, failing to release the creativity, innovation, and whether further engagement is possible. “No,” and something completely unrelated and not based on what the other gave you. They really wanted to get that zinger in regardless of the setup.<br /><br />Yes..And may bridge the two topics, but does so through active listening and keeps the back and forth in alignment.<br /><br />To paraphrase from Seinfeld, “You can take the reservation, but can you keep the reservation?’ Anyone can get someone’s attention, but can you keep someone’s attention?” Because, really that is the most important thing.<br /><br />Attorneys receive some variation of waiting to talk emails every day from recruiters: Dear insert name. You are the perfect candidate for an AM Law top 100 firm in insert city. They are a fast growing firm with multiple insert either national or international offices and a dynamic practice. The firm is only looking for superstars with over insert how much portable business needed. Please contact me at your earliest convenience to discuss this fantastic opportunity.<br /><br />Chances are that if you do not know if you are the perfect candidate for that opportunity, neither do they.<br /><br />The same can be said when you are trying to develop your client base. Are they the perfect client based on where they sit on the Fortune 500 list, type of sector that they are in, and where they have offices?<br /><br />You can’t Google search what drives people. Why is someone a corporate attorney instead of a litigator? Have they had enough of big firms and are looking for something smaller? What about the practice of law is important to you? Is a successful move based on making more money, or is making more money a function of having a platform to reach your other goals with people that you enjoy working with?Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-36594185324794668882017-11-08T06:37:00.000-08:002017-11-08T06:37:00.558-08:00The End of Books<br />It’s the million dollar question. As I talk with attorneys about potential career moves you can almost anticipate that they want me to ask it. They need me to ask it. They get asked it all of the time. Most hope that I don’t ask it. Why? Because no one knows the answer.<br />
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Let me be clear, I hate the question too. Firms want me to ask it, so I do…eventually.<br /><br />Firms have gotten very smart about creating uncertainty around what people can claim as “their book”. Bring a client in and have 8 other people work on all facets of that clients needs. Smart, good business. After a team works successfully on a few deals, knows the people involved, has domain expertise of the client, trying to be the one attorney that takes that client will most likely result in a rock fight on the way out.<br /><br />So the refrain goes, I brought in X amount over the last few years, but I can’t tell you how much, if any, is portable. That not knowing will slam the breaks on a prospective firms 30 pages of diligence that they need to determine if they are interested in bringing you into the fold. So you are a great attorney…if we cant measure it, we cant manage it. If we can’t manage it, then you aren’t worth it.<br /><br />Books should be about stories though. What you have done over the last 3-5 years or over a career says a lot about how you have developed your character. Are you a role player or hero? Have you failed miserably in a way that has ultimately lead you to succeed? What has held the character back? What does the character need to move the story forward?<br /><br />You can show originations and WIP for the last 3 years in a Tweet.<br /><br />The question will not go away. Just like a mutual fund prospectus shows performance over the last few years, the disclaimer also says that it is not a guarantee of future performance. We have to start somewhere though.<br /><br />As you evaluate opportunities use the exercise to formulate what you need and frankly what you don’t. If you are seeking a romance novel, don’t go shopping in the horror section. If you seek bill rate flexibility, other practice areas to leverage, specific firm culture, geographic footprint, etc. All of those things go to your list of requirements. This will tighten your list of suitors based on what you will tolerate or not.<br /><br />Paint a picture of what you would look like to that firm over first couple of months (resources needed, clients to cross-sell with, practice groups to engage, marketing) to a year and 5 years in. Create an outline that everyone can use to fill out the story.<br /><br />Firms WANT to know what you have done in the past with another firm, but they NEED to know how you will do that and more with them. <br /><br />This is the time of year to start putting that story down on paper whether considering a move or kick-starting your practice where you are.<br /><br />If you are looking for a new start to your story, contact me at: <a href="http://Andrew@wilcox-legal.com/">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>, 850-274-7849</div>
Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-81938484867936365312016-06-21T11:14:00.001-07:002016-06-21T11:34:08.899-07:00Pepper<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">When you grow up
as the child of a nurse, you go into the world armed with a lot of information
that is useful, petrifying, and some of it fun at parties.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Nurses tend to
diagnose everyone and share the findings at Thanksgiving dinner, when they meet
your prom date, and with other parents on the bleachers at baseball games. If
two or more of them are together you can pretty much leave them alone for hours
as they share war stories.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The favorite
refrain being, “Does this bother you.?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Guess I don’t think anything of it.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">She’d leave the
house for a double shift with chores written in shorthand and with the
understanding that if she didn’t work, we didn’t eat. So if I’m sick, I BETTER
be sick.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Being a kid with
asthma stinks, but has its advantages.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>If you don’t want to do something anymore you just say you cant breath
and you sort of get a pass.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>However, the
2 or 4 am rushes to Broward General weren’t as fun.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The drug of choice, which has since been
banned, was Primatene Mist.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When that
didn’t work and mom needed a solution at 2 am, she first reached for
pepper.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’d sniff it and start sneezing
like crazy. This would probably get a call from DCF now, but the simple
solution was to sneeze a lot, clear my head, calm down, and breathe again.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">When you are a
kid with asthma, you grow up to be an adult that doesn’t take breaths for
granted.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You try and fail and learn and
succeed but thinking it to death is like having pepper when you cant breath and
waiting for clinical trials on a wonder drug.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Years later I
had “outgrown” asthma.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Travelling in
Arizona at 2 am something hit me though.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Something in the environment that shot my eyes wide open and took me
back 25 years.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Desperate for air, no
inhaler in site.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My back hurt from the
gasping.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Emergency room in a foreign
city, deep Tony Robbins cleansing breathes, or get downstairs and find some
pepper.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">I walked toward
the door and looked to the counter.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You
would have thought that I was Scarface as I poured the 2 small packets out and
went all Martin Short in Inner space to sneeze (good luck ever tying those two
movies together again)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Firms spend a
lot of money on people that “know more” and promise solutions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Is your firm gasping for air?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Maybe the attorney that you had in mind to
take over just left. Your growth is based on bringing on more people with
revenue.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Trim a group.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s all ways to catch your breath.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Sometimes
desperation seeks the simple solution, and knowing the symptoms makes it easier
to find the cure.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Does your
practice need a miracle cure or do you just need to catch your breath? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal">
<span style="font-family: "times new roman";">Let me pass you
the pepper..<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com?subject=from%20e-newsletter">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-57315002756101600982016-04-28T06:43:00.001-07:002016-04-28T06:43:59.260-07:00WHY THE THINGS WE DOThink for a moment about the great law firms that you know.
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In his book, Start With Why, Simon Sinek asserts that the
organizations that outpace all others start with the Why (Purpose), then ask
How (Process), and end up with What (Result).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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However, law firms and potential lateral candidates usually
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Law firms want to know “what” portable business an attorney
has.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If it’s big enough, then “how” is
it built.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Types of clients, practice
areas, bill rates, leverage.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If a
candidate passes through those hoops then, “Why” would they be lucky enough to
join such an amazing law firm as ours filled with such legally skilled
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The question becomes, why would anyone that has that kind of
practice and book of business ever be compelled to leave their firm?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Certainly, firms do their homework.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They know what the market bears in
compensation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some pay higher base,
lower bonus.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Others pay lower base,
higher bonus, but the days of going across the street for substantially more on
a book of business are fewer and fewer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>In fact, so many firms have been burned on promised or historical
revenue that the chances are you may have to take the same or less than you
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Past performance doesn’t guarantee future success as the
stock disclaimer reads.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Firms are buying
a snapshot of when an attorney is trading at their highest returns, rather than
picking based on fundamentals and investing in their professional growth.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The attorneys that make the move have to know WHY. WHY is
the story that reduces the risk.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
painting of the picture in that firms model that gets them from where they are
to where they want to be. The How and
What of a firm is a Google search. Websites with city pictures, attorneys
smiling looking busy while standing in front of bookshelves, and accolades.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Drop down boxes with office locations, practice
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Chances are when I asked, why you thought a firm was great,
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Just like when you think of a great attorney, it probably
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The WHY is the alignment of firm and attorney with culture,
values, aspirations, practice, clients, colleagues, etc. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s not the secret sauce, it’s the reason for
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With more firms going to a teaming approach, less certainty
can be given on who and what clients would leave with anyone.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Smart if you are the firm, but it also means
that they are going after a shrinking percentage of legitimate rainmakers that
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Last week I spoke with an AM Law 50 client that gets
it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They said find us the best talent
that we can catch on the way up, and we will give them the resources or the
“how” and we will watch “what” grows.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>That takes time and investment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A
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Clients can buy WHAT you do from a variety of
attorneys.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Firms can hire rainmakers for
HOW they develop their business.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Both
can be commoditized.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you don’t
believe me, raise your bill rate by $100/ hour or demand a big raise.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Silek states “People don’t buy what you do. They buy WHY you do it.”</div>
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So WHY do you do it, and are you with a firm that gets it?</div>
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Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com?subject=from%20e-newsletter">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-48979030897334182272015-12-08T05:37:00.000-08:002015-12-08T05:37:18.062-08:00PresentsA few weeks ago I got to go to a high school football game with a good friend. One of the top rivalries in the country and a school that he went to. Fifteen thousand people, tickets on the 50, perfect weather, the home band has over 400 members and they and the visiting band filled the field before kickoff. I jokingly asked…”Did we really HAVE to be here an hour early?” He said, “HAVE to? You GET to..!”<br /><br />What a perfectly simple way to look at this time of year.<br /><br />Around Halloween you take a look ahead and the activity calendar fills up pretty quick. Thanksgiving, shopping, singing Christmas trees, parties, sporting events, travel, family events, religious services. From one busy to the next. From one choice to the next. One opportunity to the next.<br /><br />This time of year brings out the best and the worst of emotions.<br /><br />Maybe you just remember how the holidays made you feel. Maybe yours was the Facebook update family with all of the perfectness, or this time of year can have toxic memories.<br /><br />Rarely, when you recall the holidays when you were 7, 17, 27, etc can you recall a specific present that someone gave you. There are always the big ones. Maybe the bike or the toy that you really wanted.<br /><br />The biggest presents are the times when someone forgave or showed grace and kindness when you didn’t deserve it. It didn’t cost money, but carried a burden. Your present to others can be the same. Not because you HAVE to, but because you GET to.<br /><br />If love is spelled by the closest ones to you, T.I.M.E, then give it. Not because you HAVE to, because this life is short, you can’t take it with you, and you GET to.<br /><br />Moments are captured rather than enjoyed. On a device, to be seen years later and probably deleted, rather than experienced at the moment.<br /><br />I wish you all of the blessings of the season and that your greatest Present given and received from the ones that you care about the most is Presence.<br /><br />Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com?subject=from%20e-newsletter">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-60083953465132942912015-11-04T07:27:00.000-08:002015-11-04T07:27:23.691-08:00SilosOn a drive to Atlanta a few weeks ago I was struck by the similarities from farm country to downtown. Both have tall silos that hold valuable resources, tied to measurable market conditions, that stand alone next to each other, and hold perishable material if not used in a timely manner.<br /><br />Of course silos downtown house people, knowledge, and technical resources that can measure market conditions, and in theory, act. Cultivate your resources, brand it, price it accordingly.<br /><br />The problem is that within most offices there are several silos on the same floor, perhaps in the office next door. All separate, all different pricing, all different clients, all different need of resources. Protected like a farmer protecting their crop.<br /> <br />When speaking with firms about cross-marketing I either get a chuckle or a plan. The ones that do it effectively get granular in their metrics (but in a way that everyone understands), incentivize, and only hire or retain people that buy into that culture. They train associates to become client developers and communicate constantly.<br /><br />There are plenty of “eat what you kill” firms. Not many are going to the top of the AM list.<br /><br />The inverse is the firm mindset that, “If we train associates to develop their own business they will just leave..” So what happens when they become partners and need to have clients? Great attorneys that may have never had a business discussion in their lives are told that their career is on the line to do something that they have never been asked to do before.<br /><br />Other favorites:<br /><br />“As a litigation partner, if a corporate matter comes in I have no idea who to go to..”<br /><br />“I only get paid on my originations that I work, no incentive to bring anyone else in, and if I did they would probably try and poach my clients..”<br /><br />Getting new clients is hard enough. Why always chase new ones? The firms that take their talents and multiply them start out doing a percentage of work and leveraging other practice areas from their firm or network into that client to help manage their risk.<br />The price for services becomes a value when risk is reduced. Otherwise it’s just a cost...and there is always someone to do it cheaper and faster.<br /><br />How can you tear down the silos in your environment and utilize the rich resources that are right around you?<br /><br />Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com?subject=from%20e-newsletter">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-67391560870111830662015-08-13T05:43:00.000-07:002015-08-13T05:43:12.731-07:00Broadcast DelayIn 1952 WKAP in Allentown, PA introduced a concept of a tape delay by 6 seconds because they wanted to add live calls to their on air format. The delay was simple in that they spaced the playback tape reel along rollers from the record reel. The time that it took to get from origin to broadcast was 6-7 seconds.<br /> <br />Now the delay is digitized and is used for sporting events, news, and any time Kanye West gets near a TV camera. The idea is to filter out the bloopers, profanity, etc.<br /> <br />With the political debates beginning and pundits taking batting practice it got me thinking how valuable this tool would be if we all had a 6-7 seconds from origin of thought to broadcast. <br /> <br />Think how many fewer divorces there would be, how many arguments, how many “oops” moments in a day. Imagine if emails and texts couldn’t be sent for 6-7 seconds from when your finger hovers over the send button. Would people have to misread intentions? Instead we are stuck with adding smiley faces and emojis to messages like we are writing in some sort of modern hieroglyphics just not to hurt someone’s feelings. Sure I called you an offensive name, but I added :) so you cant be mad.<br /> <br />In reality, the inverse is true. People don’t use the 6-7 seconds to listen, reflect, and respond. Being first and having the answers, right or wrong, is the norm. If there are 6-7 seconds it’s to craft the perfect zing or Tweet. #GOTCHA. #Whohas2thumbsandissmarterthananyoneelse.<br /> <br />Reflective conversation is a gift…at times. Everyone has that friend that is completely unfiltered and gets away with it. Well that’s just Joe.<br /> <br />I would assert seconds 5-7 are where the coddling or politically correct words get formed. When you can actually see people contort themselves to try and frame and qualify every word and statement to the point where you want to shake them and say, ”JUST SAY IT!”<br /> <br />Maybe it would be easier to just say the first thing that comes to mind and just finish every sentence with “Bless your heart.” Joe is just touched in the head, bless his heart.<br /> <br />“My fellow candidate for office is clearly a racist, puppy hating, deviant, who doesn’t think the rules apply to him…bless his heart.”<br /> <br />That seems easier than defining what a “micro aggression” or “trigger warning” is. Seriously, Google it, then wait for your head to explode.<br /> <br />Or to paraphrase the 80’s song, “Do what you say, say what you mean, one thing leads to another.” No delay needed.<br /><br />To discuss your client development messaging contact, Andrew Wilcox, <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>, 850-629-9073<span style="color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica;"><span style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"></span></span>Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-52172525319700929742015-06-21T06:25:00.000-07:002016-01-22T12:41:29.197-08:00Father Time<br />
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Young dad walks up the aisle of a flight to some well planned out trip. The kids excitedly skip up the aisle drawing smiles. Mom has the monogrammed bag with some snacks, a travel mag and the equivalent of the "Presidential football" in hand. Dad looks like he is off to war. Every finger holds a bag, stroller, backpack, diaper bag, extra bag in case the airlines lose the main bags, and his laptop. Exhausted already, and set to cram a lost year into 5 or 6 days, the man in his 80's sitting next to him taps him on the arms and says.."You're doing good, son.."<br />
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You would have thought the young dad just heard the Gipper speech. Dads don't get that affirmation often. If Moms are the family quarterback, dads are the lineman. It's about the blocking and tackling. Lineman rarely make the ESPN top 10 highlights. The good ones just go to work everyday with a servants heart in hopes of making the team better.<br />
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A few days later, I noticed something on my family trip, a clear view through the back window. No strollers, potties, diaper bags. Just a sinking feeling as I looked at my daughters that time is moving WAY too fast.<br />
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Maybe all dads think this way. Maybe parental guilt for dads is a new thing. I don't remember my dad sharing a pain for the times he wasn't around during the week when I saw him on the weekends. Beyond football and mundane subjects most dads don't. He just did the blocking and tackling. Made the ballgames, showed how to cook a steak, replace the tires and get a tune up before your 16 year old drives alone for the first time, and said he was proud of me.<br />
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A few years ago I was part of Men's Fraternity by Robert Lewis. He said that kids need to know 3 things from their dads. You love them. You are proud of them. They are good at..____.<br />
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I saw successful grown men break down that never heard that from their dads. Some men spend their days chasing affirmation from a dad that died years before, and fail to offer that affirmation to their kids. So much lost time and wasted talk.<br />
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Spending the weekends with my dad left all week to seek mischief. The great dads reach out to those kids without realizing it. To this day, I call the Bursa's friends. Brian manages the Tampa office of Lewis Brisbois. He ran with my brothers, I ran with his brothers. Sports, scouts, school. Brian's dad, Big Ed worked 6 days a week, but never missed a game. Every few years he'd have to come by my house. Until the age of 72, he cleaned septic tanks and I never saw him without a smile on his face. In fact, he had heart problems at 62 and worked 10 years with congestive heart failure until the family made him retire. 3 kids graduated with advanced degrees, 2 others own businesses, and their mom stayed home playing quarterback. He moonlighted at a convenience store and still worked there for 6 months after being held up at gunpoint, and he did it with a smile.<br />
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I don't know if he ever had parental guilt or just was the bridge between a Pennsylvania farm family and his kids.<br />
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Doing what he wished he could always do. Good dads try to make the next generations life just a bit better. They walk the house one last time to check the locks, take a hand when words are tough to come by, drop off close to the door in the rain, hug for the heck of it, make funny noises, inappropriate aromas, and quietly worry to the core of their being for their kids. They are giants in spite of what the latest sitcom tries to portray them as.<br />
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Guys talk without talking in many ways. Younger men approach the tee and hit the ball with every ounce of energy looking to impress, often leading to failure. There is something older men have learned about hitting the ball 150 yards at a time and playing for par. It takes a while to settle a restless boys soul into a dad bod.<br />
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Some dads are worthy of the Greatest Dad shirts, some arent. If your dad wasn't, forgive him, even if he isn't around to hear it. If he is, a few words will make him think that he heard the Gipper speech, don't waste them on sports and filler talk. Father Time is short and cruel, but it's the best time of you and your dads life.<br />
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Psalm 145:4<br />
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Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-38196314071090432712015-03-31T07:50:00.004-07:002015-12-22T06:03:17.054-08:00THEYJason and I started out in the first class together, on the first day of freshman year at South Plantation High. To say that we couldn’t stand each other is an understatement. He wore a Gator shirt, I wore FSU, and this is back in the 80’s after FSU had lost 6 in a row.<br /><br />Everyday on the basketball court, track, field, in the halls, we would jaw at each other. Then came baseball tryouts. We both pitched, but tried out for other positions as well. If I tried out for 2nd, so did he. If he went to left, so did I. I wanted the number 18 jersey and he got it first. He wanted 20 when we made varsity and I got it first. <br /> <br />For 3 years, one thing was becoming apparent, neither was going to let the other get the best of them. Extra ground balls, running more laps, more time in the bullpen.<br /> <br />Like what happens on not very good teams, eventually the coach had a meltdown and kicked most everyone out of practice, EXCEPT for the ones that he knew cared. There were 4 of us left and Coach O verbalized what now seems obvious. If it wasn’t for the other, neither of us would have been on the team, and neither would have made All-County. We realized both wanted to get to the same place and had been helping the other get there all along.<br /> <br />My family has been listening to a series by Dr. Ed Young called 50 Shades of THEY. (I know) He discusses the THEY in our lives. The people that we surround ourselves with that have our attention and also have our backs. Some call it their Board of Directors, inner circle, 2 am friends. THEY are the ones that push you and that you can hear the real deal from. <br /> <br />After doing legal search and consulting for over 13 years, I can tell you the most successful attorneys have the most successful THEY in their lives. Rainmakers know other rainmakers. They may not be best friends, but they push each other. The best litigators study each other. THEY challenge you, lift you up, and sometimes grate on your nerves. THEY wouldn’t have that affect though if YOU didn’t let them.<br /> <br />Too often, I speak with attorneys that feel stuck. Their practice has reached some barrier that they do not feel that they can get past. Perhaps it’s a comfort zone, often it’s where the rest in their peer group is. THEY are toxic and can make YOU feel like your best is behind you. YOU don't deserve more. YOU should spend ever waking hour catering to how THEY feel. THEY will exhaust you emotionally. Time for a friend-ventory..<br /> <br />One of the easiest client development tips that I give is find the person that is trying to get to the same place, and help them get there. Run the laps with them, spend time in the dugout strategizing, silently commit to outworking each other.<br /> <br />A few years later, I was at Jason’s contract signing party and a few years after that reading a USA Today article that he was the Triple A player of the month for the Arizona Diamondbacks. I called to congratulate him and he said, “When I made it, we all made it.”<br /><br />Can YOU say that about your THEY?<br /><br />For more information on client development best practices contact please call Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-4531326868197139162014-11-03T05:19:00.001-08:002014-11-03T05:19:44.512-08:00Baby Steps<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I flipped the TV on last Saturday morning with a cup of
coffee as the kids started stirring and they heard me laughing as I watched
Bill Murray in the classic, “What About Bob”.</span><div class="MsoNormal">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Like a song that has different meanings at different times
in life, this movie struck me with its simplicity and rather poignant
message.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Particularly when you apply it
to business.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In a three part harmony or
play it makes for some actionable advice as you think of 2015 and how you are
going to grow your practice.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Think of what your craziest goal is and what a year to end
all other years in your career would look like.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Feel that anxiety and doubt creep in.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>How will I ever get from here to there? I have always generated this
much business.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>How will I ever get than
many new clients, grow my practice, find time for that certification, stick to
a workout plan, unplug for a vacation with my family.. Sounds great, wont ever
happen.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Bbbbb baby step </b>your
way to a seminar…Bbbb baby step your way to a networking event, Bbbb baby step
your way away from your laptop and phone to a weekend getaway.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The anxiety is simply too much!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m doing the steps, working the system..I
need I need!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Time to take a
vacation from your problems.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></b>What if
all of the reasons why you couldn’t do something didn’t exist? Chances are,
they really don’t. The fear, uncertainty, and doubt is but a terror barrier that
you have put up that prevents you from doing what you can do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Forget them, take a vacation from them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If they are real, they will always be
there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Close the place up, have a
neighbor watch them, pay a few months in advance for lawn service and get away
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The top rainmaker that I know gets out of town for a weekend
a year to a hotel 50 miles away.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Leaves
his phone and laptop behind.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Hikes,
reads, reflects.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He comes back with hand
written goals for his next year and throws out what didn’t work that year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He gets away from the noise and comes back
with a plan.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Death therapy<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">In the last part of the film, Dr. Leo Marvin (Richard
Dreyfuss)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>reaches his breaking point
with Bob (Bill Murray).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Bob has been
taking Dr. Leo’s advice so literally that it creates a breakthrough, but not
until Bob looks inward at what all of this has meant.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is chained to a tree with bags of dynamite
and comes up with the metaphor.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
clock is ticking, he is chained, about to die. Rather than panic he realizes
that all that he has been must die to REALLY live.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">To control your destiny in a law firm, the service partner
must die to give way to a rainmaker.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Just like the associate or law student had to die to become a
partner.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>All of the things that have
held you back to this point have to go to give life to what you can be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Even the best practices need pruning.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-65469900123875411282014-09-05T05:14:00.003-07:002014-09-05T05:20:49.735-07:00Busyness“So how have you been?”<br /><br />“Good…busy..”<br /><br />How many conversations have you had like this in the last week? Kids back in school, catching up with parents, colleagues, etc.<br /><br />“Busy”, or its close friends, “slammed”, “non-stop”, “runnin-runnin”, “swamped” (usually from my UF friends), or if you want some street cred with wait staff and maybe extra onion rings when you take the family out to dinner, “in the weeds”.<br /><br />When did “busy” become good?<br /><br />How many people do you know that love busywork? Usually they all have the same mantra…”I have 300 hundred emails in my inbox…”, “Back to back conference calls all week..”; “Have to get all of these reports done so that I can roll them up to a singular report and prepare a 10 minute presentation..” Good grief! Sounds important, better not stop you from your “busy” to discuss something important like the weather..<br /><br />Cell phones, Ipads, laptops, wifi, have made us accessible from everywhere at all times. That wasn’t the case 20 years ago.<br /><br />The stuff that used to take us days, now takes minutes. We have Sig Sigma’d our way to bliss! Or have we?<br /><br />What good is the 12 hour work day if the work can be done in 2 after all? Hours still have to be billed.<br /><br />So we enter “the grind”. More stuff has to go in the funnel to overcome the efficiencies. That is either productive or unproductive stuff.<br /><br />“Good…busy” is what I hear from attorneys that usually are neither. Because my next questions revolve around how much business they generate and it’s always low. Then they wonder why they are not happy at their current firm, feel undervalued, and tell me how they are the best attorney in that practice area in the area.<br /><br />The rainmakers that I know have a process and don’t get caught up in busy. They can tell you how they generate business, don’t tolerate average, and seem to have time for a standing tee time in the week, or coach their kids sports.<br /><br />Busy, I would assert, is the new “special” or depending on perspective, “victim”. It’s where people hide out. There is a reason, as the saying goes, if you want something done, give it to a busy person. They need it to fill calendar space. They need to be copied on every email so that they can hit 300 every day. Conference calls sound very important, until you realize that most people on them are probably checking their Facebook posts.<br /><br />Well if that is busy…that’s not good.<br /><br />For more information on client development best practices contact please call Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-81258223297368786392014-06-27T10:23:00.000-07:002014-06-27T10:23:05.793-07:00Tolerance<span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">About a year ago, I was having a discussion with an attorney that I had developed a friendship with in Ft. Lauderdale about their practice. Every 6 months or so we would discuss their career and potential opportunities. They found themselves stuck. Over a 3 year period they had originations of 472k, 509k, and 488k. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Seeking a better opportunity, but stuck in a range, the attorney discussed client development plans. What has worked, what hasn’t and yet nothing had really changed. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Last week they called and said that originations have passed 900k since that discussion and a simple suggestion that I made. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Figure out the things that you simply do not want to tolerate anymore and stop tolerating them.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Their list consisted of 10 items. Time and energy demons. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">They tolerated: People walking in their offices when they had time blocked for other activities on their firm calendar, calls not getting returned from clients and prospective clients, an associate that needed direction on everything, legal assistant that was consistently late, seminars that weren’t generating any business, firm meetings that they didn’t have a need to be in, clients that take 30-60+ days to pay, etc.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">A lot of frustration and animosity that builds up and distracts to the point where the 15 minutes lost turns into an hour.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Now, there are things that as functioning humans you simply must deal with. As a Miami Dolphin fan, the draft is a yearly reminder of this..</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">However, what can be holding you back from significantly growing your practice can be the things that you feel like you have to overlook when you really do not have to. It’s not a THEM problem, it’s a YOU problem. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">These are not comfortable discussions or changes that you have to have with others. Kind of like telling your parents that you want to start your own traditions rather than dragging the kids from house to house during the holidays. At some point a practice has to grow up.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Set an expectation with clients on payment. If an associate isn’t working out, get a different one. Plenty of good ones out there. If people walk in your office while you are the middle of a matter, bolt the lock, put a sign on the door. If you are wasting time on client development matters that aren’t developing clients, spend time on things that will. Tired of missing your kids events because of working late, stop letting 15 minute distractions become an hour.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Tolerating is where some people hide out. It takes time and effort to tolerate. What if the inverse were true? Not tolerating your business being under 1 million a year. Not tolerating an </span><em style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">average</em><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">vacation. Not tolerating calls that interfere with family time.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Make your list and lets talk next year..</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">For more information on client development best practices contact please call Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or </span><a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com?subject=from%20e-newsletter" style="background-color: white; color: #336699; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19.200000762939453px;">.</span>Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-45436316585811548302014-05-08T05:10:00.001-07:002014-05-08T13:36:13.552-07:00MindsetLast week I had a conversation with a managing partner of an AM Law 100 firm that has grown significantly through lateral hires and we discussed the “portable book of business” issue.<br /><br />He said that he isn’t looking for a portable book of business; rather he is looking for a mindset.<br /><br />Makes sense. Do you buy a ¼ drill bit or are you buying a ¼ inch hole?<br /><br />His point was that looking at someone’s practice whether they are growing or trending up or are they in the same range for 3-4 years? Where do people stop and why?<br /><br /><div>
Most attorneys that I speak with have originations in the same average that they did 5 years ago, give or take a bad year or two. But what makes a 500k practice not reach 1 million, or a 1 million dollar practice not become 2 million? Mindset.<br /><br />The chasm starts with a fundamental truth about attorneys that makes them great attorneys. Risk aversion. Entrepreneurs take risks to grow business; attorneys are there to manage risk. When to use one side of your brain to grow your practice and the other side that has to show confidence and competence.<br /><br />As we start Q2, are you looking forward with a full pipeline and wind at your back, or looking backwards at a rough start to 2014? Mindset.<br /><br />Most of what I hear are self-imposed limits when I speak with attorneys. A comfort zone has been reached; more business means more staff, more headaches, etc.<br /><br />Although some will never say it, they do not believe that they deserve to do or have more. How will success affect their relationships with friends, family, and colleagues? People love to project fears and envy on people that succeed. Dealing with success for many is harder than dealing with failure.<br /><br />If failure is in the past and success is in future. Where do you stop? Is status quo safer and more fulfilling than growth? If so, why? What barriers are truly holding you back?<br /><br /><i>Random baseball zen: (Don’t backhand a ball that you should be able to get in front of.)</i><br /><br />Speaking with the managing partner made me understand that dynamic and why some firms succeed and some fail. It’s safe to hire someone that can keep themselves busy, makes a reasonable compensation, and works well with others. Hiring on mindset means having to invest in resources, planning, looking 3-5 years into the future more than 3 years of past originations.<br /><br />For more information on client development best practices contact please call Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com.</div>
Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-27733303975756557872014-01-24T05:26:00.000-08:002014-01-24T05:26:09.162-08:00Follow ThroughA few months ago, I played in a golf tournament with a few attorneys and we finished dead last. The winning teams at these events tend to either have a ringer, use creative compromise arithmetic when tabbing up scores, or buy enough Mulligan’s to overcome an afternoons worth of shots into the water. <br /><br />So there we are getting our dubious award of free golf lessons and absorbing the good natured ribbing. 3 free lessons with a golf pro and some end of the year free time to use them. <br /><br />Dan was part Zen master, part troubled looper on the undercard circuit for a few years, and from the poses that he put me in either found his only pleasure in life twisting people into pretzels, or he had discovered a new form of far eastern yoga that he no doubt repaired himself with while playing his way through a hostel filled golfcation through Malaysia. <br /><br />His message was clear, however. My follow through troubled him. <br /><br />The follow through in sports can be mind-numbing. What difference does it make how I end up if the ball has been hit or thrown where it needs to go? The “where you end up”, as you learn, is a result of all of the correct or incorrect actions up to that point. Billions of dollars are spent every year on golf by people who cant figure this one simple thing out. A series or random events, tied together by hope and luck, caused them to hit a perfect shot. Now they come back time and again, trying to find that one shot, when they should be focused on the action that happens after the shot. <br /><br />Aren’t we guilty of the same thing when trying to develop business? I hear attorneys all of the time that have no idea how much business that they have or how they get it. It just is kinda there every year, until it isn’t.. Some tell me that they have given countless seminars, networking, social media activities, etc, but have no idea if any of it really works. They just step up and swing. <br /><br />Sometimes the worst thing that can happen is that they give a seminar and have a ton of early business. The next time, it gets hooked into the woods. That first one though, keeps you coming back. <br /><br />Conversely, just because your follow through is good doesn’t mean nothing bad will happen. Sometimes you hit a sand trap. It’s a process. Having a process and knowing all of the actions that make up a perfect follow through, let’s you know where you need to correct. What questions you need to ask about your activity to not waste movement, time, and energy. <br /><br />Dan the Zen Master finished the lesson with what seemed like a couple of sun salutations and vinyasas and a urging to “end on a high note”. He pointed to a flag 180 yards away as a spot to aim, stood behind me a few feet and watched my feet, elbow in, slowly back, turn the wrists, come down smoothly, eye on the ball… club out front…WHAACK!! <br /><br />Right into the trees. Hate that stupid sport..! <br /><br />For more information on client development best practices and process contact please call Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-9987384157894492532014-01-13T11:21:00.003-08:002014-01-13T11:24:11.443-08:00JoyRecently, my family was invited to my wife’s best friends church to pay tribute to her 98 year old grandmother. For 3 hours, family came, hymns were sung, and then her grandmother, who in her 80’s got a college degree, sat and played piano perfectly. That would have made for a beautiful service on it’s own. After the song, this little woman who has been a matriarch to an entire community and seen some of the worst racial elements of society, and as recently as a few nights earlier counseled a family on her street that lost a teen son to a shooting stood and preached Galatians 5 with more force than I have ever heard a sermon delivered before. Love, joy, peace, goodness, faithfulness. Her common refrain, “Feel the joy..!” It absolutely filled my heart.<br />
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Trent was 10 years old and a schoolmate of my daughters. I met him on opening night of practice coaching t-ball a few years ago and his mom told me that he may miss some games and practices because he was diagnosed with brain cancer. 4 years of doctor visits, therapy, radiation, traveling to and from cities to see specialists. They had just brought hospice in a few weeks ago before the schools boosterthon race. Trent still ran a couple of laps and was carried the rest of the way. A perfect Tallahassee day and his smile showing pure joy of being alive and around his friends.<br />
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Neighbors on his street decorated for Christmas so that he could have one last experience. The joy of the season. The next day he passed away. As a parent, you cant imagine, and you don’t know what to say.<br />
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As a recruiter, I thoroughly enjoy getting to know people. People share amazingly inspirational stories. I also hear about the divorces. Not seeing kids. Health issues. Financial despair. The holidays are the best or worst time of the year depending on your perspective. No amount of money or title changes it. <br />
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This season I wish you love, joy, peace, goodness, faithfulness.<br />
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For more information on client development best practices contact please call Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com.</div>
Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-55102594249408328602014-01-13T11:20:00.002-08:002014-01-13T11:26:20.475-08:00Information vs. Knowledge“I have only come here seeking knowledge. Things they would not teach me of in college..” The Police<br /><br />My daughter walked in to my office the other day and asked a question. “How far is it to the center of the earth?”<br /><br />My first instinct was to Google it. Then something struck me. If I had an random question at her age, I would have had to get on my bike, go to the library, sorted through the Dewey Decimal system, find books on the earth, scan through various chapters and FINALLY get the answer to my question. In the process, I would have stumbled upon what the earth’s crust was made of, the percentage of water, micro-climates, theories on what formed the earth. It gave me knowledge, not just the answer to a question that will quickly be forgotten.<br /><br />So, we got in the car and went to the library. 2 hours later, we got the answer, and she wanted to bring home a couple of books on Lincoln and Florida history. (Be honest you already Googled the question didn’t you..?)<br /><br />I hear a common refrain from hiring partners and recruiting directors at firms. They seek attorneys that seek knowledge with a curious mind, and are having a tough time finding it. Not just with younger attorneys that grew up in the digital age. It’s part of the process that makes for a successful partner. Rainmakers are curious about a customers business, and dig deeper than their website. Seeking knowledge is going beyond the questions into the theory. The how and the why. The “what’s next” and how can you be useful to them.<br /><br />Since early 2009, I have spoken with thousands of attorneys about their client development practice. The increase in their books of business directly correlates to the types of questions that they asked about how they develop clients. Prior to the economic collapse, many just did their thing and business came in. Billing pressures, leverage, clients closing or merging, and several other factors changed the landscape. The nimble attorneys adjusted by asking how those changes affect them. What types of clients to call on, what changes need to be done in approaching them, guarding against losing clients. All kinds of questions they asked themselves and asked their clients. <br /><br />If you are not where you want to be with your client development goals, question everything and everybody.<br /><br />Or to quote the great Parrothead poet:<br />“Answers are the easy part, questions raise the doubt”, Jimmy Buffett<br /><br />How many miles you ask…? Take 2 hours with your kids and email me with the answer..:)<br /><br />For more information on client development best practices contact please call Andrew Wilcox at (850) 629-9073, or Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com.Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-26356997888188457852013-04-29T08:10:00.004-07:002013-04-29T08:10:56.659-07:00Rainmaker scouting<br />
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sit next to a chief scout of a major league baseball team. To a baseball junkie, this was like Charlie
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We talked recruiting and scouting and what makes the best of
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<b>Preparedness and Work
Ethic</b>: In baseball you have to be
ready every day, not like football where a weeks practice goes toward one game
a week. This requires discipline. He
gets to the park early to watch players and detect attributes in their pregame
rituals. Higher achievers are more
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<b>Concentration and
Focus:</b> Although related to preparedness, this is more related to how a
player conducts themselves during a game.
Pitch by pitch, play by play, they are in every moment.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>Competitiveness:</b> This may seem obvious, but everyone takes
their lumps at some point. Perhaps a
slump that lets self-doubt creep in.
When this scout sees someone with talent underachieving he said he
wonders ,”Is there a desire to succeed to the degree that there’s a failure
mechanism kicking in? Is there a fear of failure. Is the desire to succeed
significant enough to overcome the fear of failure?”<o:p></o:p></div>
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Humility:</b> It’s a cliché about how you can fail in baseball 7 out of 10
times and end up in the hall of fame. The ability to cope with failure requires
a short term memory and a sense of humor. He likes watching how a player reacts
after making a mistake. Does he hang his
head or smile it off as fans are screaming at him and come back with a big hit.
I’ve spoken with some of the biggest name attorneys in the country who are the
most approachable and self –effacing people you will know, and I’ve spoken with
junior partners at small firms that think the Sun rises and sets on their
streams of consciousness. Like the old
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<b>Adaptiveness and
Learning Ability:</b> How successfully is the player able to process new
information during a game? Listen to advice.
How does he adapt when his life situation changes. The idea of coming out of law school and 10
years later being a rainmaking partner is rarely a straight line even for the
most talented. Attorneys and ballplayers
cant be too rigid in their mental approach.
What works for the top rainmaker in their firm may not work for them. They find what works for them but always look
for ways to tweak their approach.<o:p></o:p></div>
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How would you scout yourself?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Andrew Wilcox, <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>, 850-893-8984</div>
Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-86609492501460721572013-03-18T06:25:00.002-07:002013-03-18T06:26:58.099-07:00Spider Sense<br />
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Experience, firm name and presence, practice area knowledge,
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These are the usual items that end up on a whiteboard when I
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Problem is, EVERYONE sells these things. If all of this
cancels out with what other attorneys and firms offer, how much of a commodity
is your practice? Can clients get what you are selling at a cheaper price, or
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Spider- Man had “Spider-sense”, attorneys have knowledge and
experience. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Wikipedia defines Spider-Man's "Spider-sense" as a
"tingling feeling at the base of his skull, alerting him to personal
danger in proportion to the severity of that danger." It is the sensation
that something bad is about to happen. It is his unique ability to sense peril
ahead, sort of his early warning system that he needs to take action to avoid
trouble...or meet it at a position of advantage.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Addressing issues before they become problems. Spend 100k in fees to avoid millions in
lawsuits for instance..<o:p></o:p></div>
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Do clients pay you to do legal work or for your
spider-sense? The fresh set of eyes on what they see as day-to-day events. Knowledge and experience that enables you to
see around a corner when they can not. Hearing
the ominous music as pending doom is about to occur while they are walking
into…(<i>stay tuned for the rest of that
story on next weeks episode..)<o:p></o:p></i></div>
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<b>How do you sell what
nobody knows will happen?<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b>Put them in the grave
and take them out.</b> What has your
knowledge and experience seen? How has it helped other clients bottom line? What bad things have happened to other
companies in their sector? How has it damaged them and what could have been
done to avoid it?<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>Know the enterprise.</b>
Whether they are one person or a Fortune 100 company, learn everything about
them. Every division, every company
goal, every stakeholder. Everyone does a Google search, few read a 10-Q. Fewer
ask to spend a day meeting with people throughout an organization. You may not have practice area experience,
but someone in your referral network should.
Take a team approach to address every pitfall from HR, operations,
marketing, IP, tax, etc The trusted
advisor that they can’t live without and that has touch points deeper than one
area. If they don’t find the value in the time that you want to invest in
getting to know them as a whole, maybe they are just wanting to hire someone
that is a commodity and wont cost them that much. Your value is worth the
investment!<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b>Measurement.</b>
Establish a baseline. If they don’t have
anything to measure and no reason to change what they are doing, why should
they hire you? What are they paying in
labor lawsuits in a year? Fines, compliance, delayed product launches?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Please contact me to discuss your client development goals: Andrew Wilcox, <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>, 850-893-8984</div>
<br />Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5392290703667397489.post-28633533916366381052013-02-01T07:26:00.004-08:002013-02-01T07:26:31.311-08:00Premature Elaboration<div>
Over the holidays you have a chance to catch up at parties with people
you don’t see every day. It’s also a great time for storytelling.
Reflecting on the year. Old stories that get better with time.<br />
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There are stories that you can sit and listen to for an hour. So
filled with detail and cadence that it seems to bring everyone in the
room around to it.<br />
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Some stories that I call Facebook stories. 25 minutes of inside family
humor about how lil Becky said something cute in the middle of the
Chik-Fil-A to the “big cow”. They seem to love the story so much that
it bears repeating. If there is a party repellant spray to be handed
out next year that keeps them away, you hope that you are doused in it.
They corner you as you can see the rest of the party is caught up with
Mark Twain reincarnate across the room.<br />
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Then you have the story killers. You know them. The story is about to
get good and the spouse or the person that has heard the story jumps
in, interrupts, or gives away the ending. Yeah, I would have been
fulfilled with It’s a Wonderful Life after 10 minutes enough to flip
over to Duck Dynasty. ..<br />
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As a teen boy, I recall asking my older brother how to get girls to
like me. What do I say? What story should I tell them? He said “Be
yourself…just not too soon..”<br />
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The way that people engage your services has changed. Everyone has the
name of a good attorney, and everyone gets a few names. Who are you at
the party though? Do you ask questions that bring people out? Similar
interests? Common purpose?<br />
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The process of asking questions to form your story around their goals
and needs. Some people need a quick story, some need details. Their
fulfillment is found in them taking ownership through the process of
being asked about what is important to them. It’s also artificial
patience to you who have probably heard their story a thousand times
with a thousand clients.<br />
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Does your web bio tell a story or just a couple of bullet points on
practice areas? When you engage a client or prospective client in a
conversation do you bring them into the story and make it personal to
them, or do you give the same story to everyone only to be interrupted
by the noise in their head. In seminars, do you talk or interact? Is
social media one-sided or does it solicit feedback?<br />
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Please contact me your client development goals at: 850-893-8984, <a href="mailto:Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com?subject=from%20newsletter" style="color: #336699; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: underline;">Andrew@Wilcox-legal.com</a>Wilcox and Hackett, LLChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13825967439875921270noreply@blogger.com0